Interstellar Adventures

July 31, 2006

1 month, 3 rooms, 6 projects

Filed under: Elle & Zed,Interstellar Casa — by InterstellarLass @ 12:04 am

Redecorate Elle’s Room: check

New Front Room Furniture: check

Paint Front Room: check

Redecorate Zed’s Room: check

Master Closet Reorganize: check

New King in Master: the catalyst

Elle and Zed come home in the morning, and we’re nearly done. Elle and Zed’s rooms are finished, and the front room crown moulding needs the nails counter-sunk, puttied and painted, and that will be done.

After he saw Elle’s room, Zed asked if he could pick what he wanted to do with his room. Of course! So he and I picked out the paint colors together. He wanted to go with the Superman theme of the sheets he’d gotten for his birthday. He had several of the posters already, but they were put on the wall with thumbtacks. Nick did a great job getting the frames on, and he also put that bed together. In addition to the bookshelves, there are also three drawers under the bed. Storage! There are more photos in the Home photo set on my Flickr.


Elle’s room got the memo strips put up, and her new surfboard rug is down. I’ve ordered some pillows from, but they haven’t arrived yet. 😦


And, finally, what started it all. Nick got his king-sized bed after begging for months. We also found some cool shelves and hung those. I’m looking for different stuff to put on them, but that’s not urgent at the moment. I grabbed some stray candles and whatnot from around the house.

Is there any such thing as painters cramp? For the forseeable future, I’m done with the redecorating. Except that on our last trip to Lowe’s, we picked out the colors for the living room! YIKES!

And, if all goes well, within the next month or so, we will have bought our house from my ex-Father-in-Law. We’re getting a very good (signifcantly below appraised value) deal on the house, and while it will probably only last us another four years, it will set the foundation for something bigger once Elle gets into junior high. That’s the plan anyway. Zed has moved schools three times, and I don’t want to move him anymore. Please pray that everything goes smoothly with us getting this house. We know that foundation work has to be done, and thankfully my ExFIL is going to pay for that. Besides that, we don’t know of any impediments to getting the loan cleared, so let’s hope it stays that way!

P.S. Nick posted.

July 28, 2006


Filed under: Writing — by InterstellarLass @ 8:42 am

When I met Nick, he regularly attended a Thursday night writing group. Nick writes great poetry in a kind of observational, beatnik style. He’s read me some things that have really blown my socks off. But evidently, since he met me, rather than becoming his muse, I’ve become like a bottle stopper. He doesn’t write much anymore. He’s posted some of his writing here. I wish he would post more. Especially some of his older work. He has a great voice and a great talent. I’ve let him take a break, but now I’m going to give him a kick in the pants and tell him to get writing. Momma wants a new car. Yes, I have purely selfish reasons.

And I too have been sitting on an idea for a book. Really a collection of snippets. Like if each day of your life was a piece of paper folded up in a jar, and someone was reaching in and pulling out a day, the day would be one part the story. You don’t get the whole story, just random days. I got the idea from one of Bone’s posts, asking If you could step back in time and re-experience a moment in your life what would that experience be. You can’t change it, just experience it. Why did you choose that moment? My response was the post One Moment. This will be a story in my book. But I reworked it for the Thursday night writing group, and I read this last night. I have a little more tweaking to do to it, but the meat of it will stay.


July 26, 2006

Ready the Ear Plugs

Filed under: Elle & Zed — by InterstellarLass @ 2:37 pm

I’m going to try to enjoy the relative peace and quiet of my home for the next five days. Elle and Zed return from the Ex Monday evening. Supposedly, Zed’s been doing a lot better at ignoring his sister’s torments. Maybe the tormenting will eventually die down a bit as well.

But starting August 10, I plan to start wearing ear plugs.

Last night Nick and I went to our local musical instrument supply store and signed a rental contract on a Selmer model CL201 B-flat clarinet. Yes. We are destined to be the proud parents of a budding clarinetist. The clarinet has an interesting history. There are many varieties, and it appears to be quite the regional instrument.

We geared up with a music stand, a music book, reeds, a thumb pad – to ensure correct thumb resting, cork grease, a cleaning brush, and other various odds and ends that all fit in a nice case slightly larger than a lunch box. The one thing we forgot though was the ear plugs. Evidently though, the initial squeaking and squawking should give way within a couple of months to a more melodious sound.

I’m just glad he doesn’t play something brass or the drums.


Filed under: Uncategorized — by InterstellarLass @ 11:20 am

The truck is unpacked and now all I have to do is re-organize everything. Whew! It was frustrating there for a bit, but hopefully I’ll be happier with the end product. No, not my house silly! My blog! It’s all very plain right now and some of my “features” are missing, but I’m muddling through it and it doesn’t appear anything is lost. I’ll give you the new URL when I’m all done! Mwah!

Update: I think I’m done! Please come see me here and update your blogroll!

July 25, 2006

Weekly Rant

Filed under: Married Life,Mom Life,Rants & Opinions — by InterstellarLass @ 9:35 am

Looks like I might have to make this a weekly or semi-weekly feature. I usually try to let things go, but I ruminate on them and then it just kind of gets to me. So perhaps by expunging them here, I’ll feel better.

You may have heard, but on Sunday, some jackass hijacked a big rig truck and a police chase ensued. The chase started in Fairview, TX, which is about 10 minutes from my house, and spanned four hours, three counties, and finally ended out near Weatherford, TX. Related to this:

Rant 1: This was probably the third vehicle he’d hijacked that day. How could he have hijacked two other vehicles and NOT been seen by a member of the public or the law and been allowed to even GET to the big rig hijacking. Has the public level of apathy sunk so low? Is it that we just don’t want to get involved?

Rant 2: During the portion of the chase that went through the southern portions of Dallas, there were hundreds of people stopped on the side of the road and on bridges, out of their cars, causing traffic delays and endangering themselves and others that were rooting for the car-jacker. One of these yahoos was interviewed and I quote “I was excited. I heard that they were shooting at him, so I wanted to get out and see bullets flying, man. You know?” one bystander said. What the HELL!?!? Get some damn sense people! This is funny? This is smart? This is cool?

Secondly, I received an envelope in the mail full of paperwork. For Zed’s first year in Junior High. I dread the begininning of the school year and all the paperwork that has to be filled out. You fill out 10 of the same forms, over and over again, and you have to do it every year. I think some of them are the same form and go to the same place, they’re just on different colored pieces of paper. You get writers cramp, and then you find more forms! Insurance forms, volunteer forms, PTA forms, band forms, forms, forms, forms! I hate paper. Someone needs to figure out a better system.

Thirdly, when you’re a female, and you get married and you want to change your name, it’s a complete pain in the butt. First it’s the social, then it’s the drivers license, then it’s the bank accounts, the credit cards, the frequent whatever accounts, and even your work email address. Seven months in and I’m still not done. Someone needs to figure out a better system.

Love ya’ll! Mean it!

Update: The DMV sucks. Don’t ever try to go at lunch, because they send all their whatever they ares to lunch at the same time. And people pack in, and then when they come back from lunch, there are only two whatever they ares to actually help people. And then you sit for an hour and a half, only to leave when they are 13 numbers away from yours because you have a meeting in twenty minutes and you still haven’t eaten lunch. So you stop at a crappy fast food restaurant on the way back to work, throwing money at the drive-thru person and speeding away. Oh, and then you come back to work to find that your meeting is an hour later than when you thought it was.

July 24, 2006

Friday Night Surprise

Filed under: Mr. Wonderful — by InterstellarLass @ 9:21 am

My Friday evening didn’t go as planned. Originally the agenda was dinner with a co-worker and my old boss, celebrating my boss’ move to another group. That was to be followed by attending my first-ever drag show. Sadly, both were cancelled. My plans then turned to poker. I found a couple of games that I could go to. Nick had originally planned to go see the new Clerks 2 (I still haven’t figured that out).

When I notified Nick of the change in plans, he offered for us to do something together. Sure! There’s no one I like spending time with more than him. Little did I know. When I asked a bit later what our plans would be, he said “It’s a surprise.” If I were a cat, I would be dead. Look up curious in Webster’s, and there I am. Once someone tells me there’s a surprise for me, rather than enjoying it, I try to figure out what it is. This is a bad trait, I know.

I proceed to guess, and for the life of me I can’t figure it out. I know that I have to pack a bag because we’re staying somewhere overnight. So it’s a hotel. Check that. We will be eating dinner. Check that. But where???

At home, I’m rushing to pack and Nick arrives and says to relax. There’s no timetable. So we putter around at bit before heading out. He does tell me our destination before we leave, primarily I think because he didn’t know how to get there. We’re going to the Gaylord Texan! I’ve never been there before.

We drive out to Grapevine and decide to eat dinner at Love & War in Texas. Their food is great. I got The Hunt, Texas for dinner, which included antelope, venison sausage and quail. The antelope was good. Not as good as I’ve had before, but still tasty. The quail was yummy too. But the venison sausage was divine. Best venison sausage I’ve ever had.

We got to the hotel, and I was shocked by it’s size. I dropped Nick off with the bag at the front and then I went to park. When I walked in, the place was gorgeous. The atrium area was so large and beautiful. I started to get a bit giddy walking through to the elevators.

Our room was on the ninth floor. After a bit of trouble with the door lock, we made it into the room. I was hit with with an unexpected surprise.

The bed was covered with yellow rose petals. A half-dozen yellow roses and two champagne glasses were on the desk. The radio was on, and, purely out of coincidence, remember the music from Pretty Woman when Edward is hanging out of the limo coming to rescue Vivian?, yes, that was playing on the radio. I cried. It was the most beautiful, most romantic thing that anyone has ever done for me. I was overwhelmed. The champagne was delicious. The strawberries were divine. My husband is amazing.

We wandered down to the Texan Station where we could smoke cigars and watched some TV on the giant flat screen that took up an entire wall. I’m not joking. It’s a 52 foot “wall of sports”. I had a couple of glasses of Frangelico, and puffed on a baby Kahlua cigar, and Nick enjoyed his more manly cigar and a robust cup of coffee.

The next morning we had breakfast in bed. Eggs, pancakes, sausage, toast, coffee and juice. There were complimentary robes in the room (which we got to keep!) that were very comfy. A free newspaper and coffee helped us to relax before we had to check out. It was a brief stay, and next time we’ll explore more of the things that the Gaylord has to show. But you know, a guy does all that, and you’ve got to spend time enjoying the benefts of being married to him. If ya know what I mean. Wink, Wink.

July 21, 2006

Design Dilemma

Filed under: Interstellar Casa — by InterstellarLass @ 10:53 am

Nick and I had a 20% off coupon to Bed, Bath & Beyond, and we needed a new laundry hamper to finish off the re-organization of our bedroom. So, we wondered around the store last night, and came across these. I thought they were pretty cool, and Nick loved them.

We’re in need of a new coffee table. Ours is circa 1970 and actually a remnant of the Ex’s grandmother’s residence in our home. So, the ottomans above would 1) look more modern, 2) provide storage and 3) provide additional seating at parties.

Thing is, we got them home, and they look awful. Maybe it’s our couch or the rest of the furniture we have, but they just don’t go. They’re not big enough either. Bummber. We bought a rug too, but it doesn’t go either. So, back to the store they go.

Now I’m on the hunt for a coffee table. And a rug. Shopping, here I come.

July 20, 2006

And I swam!

Filed under: Elle & Zed — by InterstellarLass @ 11:15 am

Elle and Zed went on a field trip yesterday to our local Mega Water Park. There are a few smaller water parks geared more for families, where I think I would have felt a little more comfortable that they were going. But nooooo. They had to go to the Mega Water Park.

Zed’s a good swimmer. I don’t have to worry about him as much. But, despite summer after summer, Elle is still a bit trepidacious in the water. At her end-of-year soccer pool party, she was jumping off the diving board with a pool noodle. Wouldn’t jump without it though.

So, of course, when I hear that they’re going to Mega Water Park, I immediately start to panic on the inside. So many people, so many kids, so much water. And Elle clinging to a pool noodle. I took them swimming over the weekend, and felt better, as Elle’s been spending a lot of time in the pool this summer, and seemed to have a better grasp on swimming.

Last night I picked them up from their daycamp, and they were both on one piece. At dinner, I asked:

Me: So, what was your favorite ride?
Elle: The Black Hole was scary!
Me Thinking: That one has rafts. Whew.
Elle: The Twister was fun too.
Me Thinking: Also has rafts. Whew!

Then she said it.

Elle: But the best one was the blue chutes. You go really really fast and I landed in 12 foot water!

My heart skipped a beat. My face went pale. I knew exactly the blue chutes of which she was speaking. They do indeed go fast, and you do indeed land in very deep water.

Elle: And I swam!
Me: Well I should hope so!

Evidently, she also went down the chute that was closest to the ladder, and her group leader went down the chute next to her at the same time. But still! Like I said, Zed swims fine. It’s Elle I worry about. She’s actually using arms and legs when she swims under water, and she can sort of free-style swim, and her back float is much better than last summer. But she still can’t tread water, and she does start to panic from time to time and then all her abilities go out the window.

Deep down I knew she would be fine. But it was the panic-er in me that freaked out. What if something happened? I won’t be there to watch her! And of course, no one can watch my kids as good as I do. I’m overprotective. I know it. I need to let go and let them spread their wings. But it’s so hard.

July 19, 2006

The Lost Suit

Filed under: The Ex Files — by InterstellarLass @ 12:34 pm

Elle and Zed spent Friday night with the Ex’s aunt. Then, we picked them up Saturday morning. Their clothes didn’t leave their suitcases. Hey, his month…his laundry. When she was getting ready for soccer, Elle pulled out her swim suit from her dad’s house, and showed it to me. Uh huh. That’s pretty. Now put it back so you don’t lose it.

Sunday…kids go back to their dad’s.



Ring Ring!

The Ex: Hello?
Me: Hey, I just wanted to remind you that Elle has soccer practice today at 6.
The Ex: OK. Oh hey. Did Elle leave her swim suit at your house? We can’t find it and they’re supposed to go to Mega Water Park tomorrow.
Me: Not that I know of. She showed it to me on Saturday, but put it right back in her suitcase.
The Ex: Well, we’ve looked all over my place and we can’t find it.
Me: Well, I’ll look when I get home, but we didn’t take anything out of the suitcase we didn’t put back in.

End Call.

Later, I got an email that due to the broiling temperatures, soccer practice was cancelled.

Ring Ring!
The Ex: Hello?
Me: Elle’s practice was cancelled.
The Ex: OK, thanks for letting me know.
Me: Did you find her swim suit?
The Ex: No, not yet.

End Call.

I called Nick on my way home.

Ring Ring!
Nick: Hey baby. What’s up?
Me: Oh hey, you’re home already. Would you look in Elle’s room for her swim suit? The Ex can’t find it.
Nick: Sure, no problem.

End Call.

I arrive home.

Nick: Hey darlin’.
Sound of smacking-knock-you-off-your-feet-welcome-home-kiss
Me: Feeling light-headed Well hello to you too. Did you find Elle’s suit?
Nick: Nope. Looked in her room and in the laundry. I didn’t see it.

Ring Ring!
The Ex: Hello?
Me: Hey, we looked for Elle’s suit but couldn’t find it.
The Ex: OK. Well, I forgot to look in her suitcase, but if I can’t find it, I’ll go to Wal-Mart and get her one.
Me: You didn’t even look in her suitcase after I mentioned twice that I saw it in there over the weekend?
The Ex: I forgot.
Me: Major sigh OK. Tell the kids I love them.

End Call.

He didn’t even look in the suitcase!

July 18, 2006

I Feel Whiney

Filed under: Texas Life — by InterstellarLass @ 9:43 am

And it has nothing to do with the 3/4 bottle of wine I drank last night. For $6.99 a bottle, it wasn’t too bad. Nick thought it was a little dry, but it went well with the rib-eyes I grilled.

Yes, I grilled, in the 100+ degree heat. It’s not like I had to stand over the flame-pit for more than two minutes at a time though. So it wasn’t all bad. But, I’m feeling whiney because of the heat.

I live in Texas. I should be used to this. But there’s no reason it should be this damn hot! We didn’t get much of a winter this year, so I’m feeling like last summer never ended. Caught in the perpetual summer. That’s us Texans.

This week’s forecast, like most of the country, shows numbers all above 100. Until Friday. And on Friday it will be a downright-chilly 97. Better break out the parka. My electric bill for the month is $230. Not bad you say? I have a small house. One level. But Nick keeps the thermostat set at 65. His sexy hairiness also leads to him being extremely sensitive to heat.

So, I would normally whine and say I want to live somewhere like New England where it doesn’t get hot in the summer, but I understand it’s fairly warm there too. Let’s see…in Helena, Montana, today’s heat-wave high is 93. I wonder if I could deal with that?

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